From Memories to Memoirs, Part 2

by Amber Lea Starfire on January 9, 2014

Boy Drawing Map
This is the second in a series on moving from memories to memoirs. Click here to read Memories to Memoirs, Part 1.

One of the great challenges (and satisfactions) of writing memoir is dealing with fragmented memories. We may remember only a snippet of an event; we may be haunted by a key images or emotions but don’t remember enough of the context — surrounding moments, people, places, and conversations — to write about it. Or at least that’s what we think.

What I have found is that the context to all our important memories is there, stored in our minds and bodies; it only needs a little probing to be released. So today I want to share with you a technique I learned from Bill Roorbach’s book, Writing Life Stories — a technique that has helped me and many of my students trigger and expand our memories.

Map Stories

Though we don’t often realize it, our memories are associated with the places in which the events occurred. Drawing maps of places you’ve lived, worked, played, and gone to school can expand memories in surprising ways, recreating whole worlds of experiences. By encouraging our minds to remember the details of those places, we unlock the details in each of those places’ nooks and crannies.

Try this:

Get a piece of paper, the larger the better, and colored pencils or crayons. If you don’t have colored pencils, a regular pencil will do the trick.

Now, draw a map of the earliest neighborhood you can remember living in. Draw the streets and neighboring houses with as much detail as possible. As you draw, ask yourself:

  • What were the names of the streets?
  • Who lived where?
  • Where were my secret places?
  • Who were my friends? Where did they live? What about the friends of my brothers and sisters?
  • Where wasn’t I allowed to go?
  • Where did the good and things happen?
  • Where did the bad things happen?

Don’t worry about making the map perfect or to scale. Don’t worry about getting the lines straight. Allow yourself to sink back into the mind of the child that you were as you draw. As images come up, draw them. (You can use a symbol that you’ll remember.) Take time with your map, drawing surrounding trees, geographic details, and so on. You’ll be surprised by how much comes up. Powerful memories will surface that you didn’t even know you had.

Once you’ve finished your map write a story, starting with, “One day ….”

Wrote about what happened in that one place on that one day.

Go ahead. Write.

What’s Next?

Put your map story in a binder. Then draw a map of another time and place in your life: another home, your school, your favorite place as a teenager. Write that story and add it to your binder.

In the next post we’ll discuss Making a Scene.

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patsy ann taylor January 9, 2014 at 6:28 pm

I really like the idea of map stories.
A group of women poets I write with came up with the plan to do map life histories. Some of us used actual maps, while others created fictional maps and used true life events. That exercise was one of the most fun and illuminating we tried. Somewhere in all my “art stuff” I still have that map.
Thanks for reminding me. : )

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Amber Lea Starfire January 11, 2014 at 1:04 pm

Patsy, I would love to see your map, if you can find it. Can you explain how you created fictional maps based on true events? That seems like it would be a fun (and illuminating) exercise.

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Maureen January 27, 2014 at 12:37 am

Amber, i LOVE the idea of map stories! i love maps anyway, and when i started working on my memoir, i did do a rough sketch of the town we used to live in, at least the streets near our house that i vaguely remembered. 55 years is a long way back in time to try to remember those things, lol. i’ve also sketched the floor plans of the houses i’ve lived in, which jogged a lot of memories. this is such a great exercise, thanks for the reminder!!

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Amber Lea Starfire February 2, 2014 at 5:23 pm

Maureen, thanks for sharing how you began working on your memoir, as well as how drawing the floor plans helped to jog memories. Whether we have 55 years or 12 years to try to recall, there’s just something about working with image and space that helps to evoke memories.

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Ali Marie March 21, 2014 at 6:05 am

Great articles. When can we expect to see part 3?

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Amber Lea Starfire March 23, 2014 at 9:39 am

Marie, thank you for asking. The answer is soon … the next post in fact!

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